Comment gérer la jalousie dans un couple ?




Quand on aime, on veut absolument que notre moitié ne respire que pour nous. C’est une réalité et à chaque fois que notre moitié sourit à quelqu’un surtout si celui-ci est inconnu dans notre cercle de connaissances, une sensation  étrange nous envahit  et nous somme mal à l’aise. On devient irrité et irritant, on s’énerve pour pas grand-chose et au bout du compte on devient pratiquement invivable. C’est que la jalousie est une maladie !

Comment gérer la jalousie intelligemment ?

Comment gérer la jalousie dans ce cas ? La jalousie modérée est une action à mener pour que notre vie à deux soit harmonieuse. Ce sentiment nous submerge et une fois qu’on est tombé dedans, il est parfois difficile de s’en sortir. Premièrement, une confiance doit s’installer entre les amoureux. Sans cela, les soupçons vont grandir et au moindre incident, les doutes feront surface. On ne peut pas demander à quelqu’un de ne pas être jaloux, il faut simplement analyser les choses et peut être engager un détective privé pour en être sûr. Cette démarche est stupide mais nécessaire si vous sentez que le vent est en train de tourner. De toute façon, quand un homme ou une femme éprouve des sentiments envers quelqu’un d’autre, des signes avant-coureurs apparaissent toujours.

Chacun de nous peut surveiller l’autre avec fièvre.

L’observation est donc de mise. Ne harcelez pas votre moitié si vous n’êtes pas sûr de son méfait. Vous pouvez demander à un ami ou une amie de jouer le rôle du détective à condition que celui ou celle-ci soit absolument irréprochable. Vous pouvez prêcher aussi le faux pour avoir le vrai auprès de votre compagnon. Mais dans tous les cas, restez calme. Si vous prenez des décisions hâtives, les conséquences risquent d’être désastreuses et votre conciliation sera quasiment impossible. Parfois, c’est nous-mêmes qui créons notre problème à imaginer des scénarios qui n’existent pas.

La jalousie dans la Littérature.

Je voudrais ici proposer un passage de « La Prisonnière » de Proust dans lequel la jalousie est définie avec une finesse… proustienne.
<< Il n’est guère de jaloux dont la jalousie n’admette certaines dérogations. Tel consent à être trompé pourvu qu’on le lui dise, tel autre pourvu qu’on le lui cache, en quoi l’un n’est guère moins absurde que l’autre, puisque, si le second est plus véritablement trompé en ce qu’on lui dissimule la vérité, le premier réclame, en cette vérité, l’aliment, l’extension, le renouvellement de ses souffrances. >>
Voir le livre intégral de Marcel Proust.

une tres belle voiture de sport achetée à crédit et qui peut être un indice qui alimente la jalousie

Il faut se contrôler et garder son tact avec l’autre.

Donc, restez prudent et agissez avec finesse. Cela demande beaucoup de maîtrise de soi et de contrôle.  La confiance totale et la loyauté doivent  régner au sein d’un couple sinon à la moindre tempête  tout s’écroulera. Vous ne devez pas écouter tous les ragots et les rumeurs  qui circulent mais soyez vigilant (e). Ne braquez pas votre compagnon ou votre campagne pour des histoires sans fondements.  Ayez en main des preuves avant de l’accuser.  De toute façon, si vous êtes sûr de son amour, l’inquiétude doit être rayée de votre esprit.

Bien s’y prendre pour gérer la jalousie

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Cela peut être facile si on s’y prend bien. Ne fouillez pas dans ses affaires et adoptez une attitude neutre même si dans votre for intérieur vous avez envie de tout casser.  Une jalousie maladive peut faire commettre des choses inimaginables  donc faites attention.  Il existe des documentaires qui parlent de cette jalousie qui a dérivé et qui a conduit au meurtre pur et simple. Et c’est à cet instant-là qu’on est conscient qu’on était allé trop loin. Mais on ne peut plus revenir en arrière hélas.  Pour éviter cela, parlez à votre partenaire de ce que vous ne pouvez pas supporter. Par exemple être trop familier ou familière à quelqu’un en particulier au risque de déclencher la foudre. Souvenez-vous qu’il est facile de détruire que de construire. Lorsque votre compagnon ou compagne rentre du travail, demandez-lui simplement s’il a passé une bonne journée. Spontanément, il va parler et vous saurez ce qui s’est passé. Néanmoins, il existe des femmes comme des hommes qui dissimulent merveilleusement bien leurs agissements. Dans ce cas, comme je l’ai mentionné en haut soyez vigilant(e).

la réserve naturelle de Nosy Be à Madagascar, avec des alligators, où je suis allée en voyage de noces

D’autres aspects, notamment littéraires de la jalousie sont développés dans le joli article de
wikipedia.

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